It’s Father’s
day today and I’m at my family home chilling with my dad. With the soft vibe of reggae music playing in
the background, and the smell of rice and peas going through the house, it’s always
good to visit the folks at home.
As the
childhood memories start flooding back to me, I saw a lovely photograph (right) which uber
talented Noel Clarke (actor, writer, director, producer) posted on twitter today
of himself and his boys, with the following tweet: “Just in
case you missed it. Me n my boys dedicated to good dads (and mums) everywhere”
(www.twitter.com/noelclarke).
Having
my dad around throughout my childhood and adult years, makes me realise how lucky
I am because a lot of people are not so fortunate to have a paternal role model in their lives. Many people don’t know who their parents are
or what forms their identity (why they act and look they way do); and many people
have had their mums and dads sadly pass away during their lifetime, only to have
memories in their heart to look back on.
I personally feel appreciative of all the good times, bad times and
special moments I have had with my dad and recognise many of his traits in me
which have made me the person I am today.
As
we honour all the dads out there today (good and bad), I also take my hat off to and feel
inspired by all the devoted mums who take up the role of the father figure as
the substitute dad for children without a dad in their lives.
Whatever
your situation, here's a poem from
Louisa Mansfield to hopefully inspire you:
DAD POEM
Dad, When I was born,
You were there to catch me when I fall, whenever and wherever.
When I said my first words,
You were there for me,
to teach me the whole dictionary if need be.
When I took my first steps,
You were there to encourage me on.
When I had my first day at school,
you were there to give me advice and help me with my homework.
I still haven’t finished school,
or walked down the aisle, or had my first child.
But I know you will be there for me through all these times and more, the good
and bad.
So I just wrote this to say 'I LOVE YOU DAD!!!'
(Louisa Mansfield)
Happy Shimmies and stay blessed this Father’s
Day :)
Nic ♥